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baby formula shortage

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When my daughter Grace was born, it was a whirlwind of events involving induced labor and eventually an emergency c-section. After 30+ hours of no sleep or food, 6 failed epidurals, and a LOT of pushing, I was in a fog of complete exhaustion. Regardless of the circumstances, I had every intention of breastfeeding my child immediately following her delivery. But somehow the nurses got their wires crossed and they ended up giving my daughter bottled formula as her first meal. To say I was upset is a gross understatement.

Feeding from a bottle is much easier for a baby than the work of breastfeeding, so getting Grace to latch and breastfeed after that first bottle was a battle that I fought and lost every day for 3 solid months during my maternity leave. I chose to pump anyway, and give her whatever breast milk I could, for as long as I could. But without her latching and feeding from the breast, I never had a significant supply of breast milk. So of course, I ended up having to supplement with formula.

It took many tries to find the right formula for her. Nothing that the hospital or mainstream media advised was the right solution for my daughter. She would cry and cry because those options hurt her tummy — even with added probiotic drops.

I recently stumbled across this all-natural baby formula recipe that certainly wish I had known about before my daughter was born. I hope this info will help other mothers who struggle to produce enough breast milk for their babies, or are unable to breastfeed for any reason. The owners of the site below have done a lot of work and research on baby formulas, first and foremost to find a solution for their own daughter. But now, this info is helping SO many others, and is a much better, healthier option than the synthetic baby formulas that are currently in short supply. I pray this information blesses someone today!

Goat Milk Formula

Please share and spread the word so all of the parents needing help will find this info!

Blessings,
Emily

True Love

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Today I’d like to share something that a fellow sister in Christ recently wrote about her mom. It’s a beautiful, sobering picture of what true love really looks like, and I think the world needs to hear it. ❤️

My greater lesson from my mom’s battle with her cancer, her death and the redefined meaning of LOVE…

I often hear the misused phrase “judge not” or “who are you to judge” hurled by the world (and sadly many in The Church) at any one who would point out that something is wrong with their behavior or understanding. I have found that this really is just a disguise by the human flesh to really mean… “Just keep your mouth shut and let me do what I want to do. I’m not really interested in hearing what is right or wrong.” (I guess satan’s first temptation and promise to Eve was really a lie.)

Now granted, scripture directs us on not judging those outside The Church, nor to involve ourselves in their affairs. (1 Cor 5:11-13 and 2 Tim 2:4-5) Why? Because they are already judged and condemned. Instead, scripture exhorts us to judge those inside The Church.

So what exactly does that look like and how does warning someone and protecting them from destruction not turn into “you’re judging me”? And more importantly, how are we really loving our neighbor?

The truth is, I loved my mom dearly. And as family, I not only loved her, but had a deep desire to see her happy. With that said, there came a day when I had to carry my mother into the doctor’s office for a surgery. During this time the doctor informed me that my mother had stage 2 breast cancer.

Now…..if you have ever had someone you love diagnosed with a terminal illness, you know it is not a very “positive” experience. BUT, here’s my question. What if the doctor and I had this information about something this horrific that was leading to her death and destruction… and what if I had then said to my mother’s doctor, “Please just keep quiet. This type of news or information will really hurt my mom. It’s not productive to keeping a positive, joyful outlook on life and really, who are you to judge how this will affect her or what her outcome will be……You’re not God!”

I wonder, would I be a “loving” daughter?

What if the doctor chooses to give her the information anyway and my mom accepts the reality of her condition… and then he tells her that there are some steps that can be taken to cure her, but it will require obedience to the instructions for treatment. She agrees and then leaves to pick up her prescription. What if it says to take take twice a day orally, but she decides it is now more comfortable to dissolve the pills in water once a day and soak her feet in them instead. It’s relaxing, doesn’t require as much effort or remembering, and certainly doesn’t cause her to feel uncomfortable.

Am I obligated to remind her or share with her what the doctor really said, or is it more loving to just let her do what she feels is best for her? Regardless of whether I tell her and she ignores me or I keep quiet, the outcome is still death. The question is, in which scenario am I genuinely loving my “neighbor” (my mother in this case), and in which one will I be held accountable to God…(herein lies the REAL meaning of being your brothers keeper)?

Ezekiel 3:16-21

Now it came to pass at the end of seven days that the word of the Lord came to me, saying, 17 “Son of man, I have made you a watchman for the house of Israel; therefore hear a word from My mouth, and give them warning from Me:18 When I say to the wicked, ‘You shall surely die,’ and you give him no warning, nor speak to warn the wicked from his wicked way, to save his life, that same wicked man shall die in his iniquity; but his blood I will require at your hand. 19 Yet, if you warn the wicked, and he does not turn from his wickedness, nor from his wicked way, he shall die in his iniquity; but you have delivered your soul.

20 “Again, when a righteous man turns from his righteousness and commits iniquity, and I lay a stumbling block before him, he shall die; because you did not give him warning, he shall die in his sin, and his righteousness which he has done shall not be remembered; but his blood I will require at your hand. 21 Nevertheless if you warn the righteous man that the righteous should not sin, and he does not sin, he shall surely live because he took warning; also you will have delivered your soul.

~ Shared with permission, from Seeds Among the Soil.~

I hope this blesses you today.
Emily

i was the one

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I’ve claimed to know and love God our Father and Jesus His Son my whole life. I was dedicated to The Lord as a baby. I was raised in church and knew right from wrong. I was confirmed at age 12. I prayed the sinner’s prayer. I was active in youth group. I sang in church, I prayed often, and I thought I was covered — even in the midst of my repetitive, high-handed, deliberate sins.

Y’all, take it from me – ignorance is only temporary bliss.

I didn’t truly belong to The Lord as I had proclaimed; I wasn’t really saved. I didn’t obey Yahweh’s laws and listen to the guidance of the Holy Spirit; I was willfully disobedient. I was a worker of “lawlessness” according to Yah’s Word, but I didn’t know that because I was not READING His Word.

And for that, I have no excuse.

It wasn’t until I began reading His WHOLE Word for myself, from the beginning, that I truly realized the full weight of my sinful depravity. My eyes have now been flung open by His Words, and I have discovered that there is no such thing as a secondhand relationship with God.

Yes, Grace covers a multitude of sins. But we are not supposed to be willfully disobedient in living our own lives apart from Yahweh, ignoring His laws and taking wrongful advantage of His Grace. That is not true repentance.

Yahweh is compassionate but not condoning of sin. He brings conviction and change to humble hearts. He loves us with an everlasting love; but He hates sin.

Hear these warnings, spoken by our Messiah:

The Parable of the Banquet
(recorded in Matthew 22:1-14 and Luke 14:15–24)

Once again, Jesus spoke to them in parables: “The kingdom of heaven is like a king who prepared a wedding banquet for his son. He sent his servants to call those he had invited to the banquet, but they refused to come. (They all had different excuses as to why they couldn’t come.)

Again, he sent other servants and said, ‘Tell those who have been invited that I have prepared my dinner. My oxen and fattened cattle have been killed, and everything is ready. Come to the wedding banquet.’

But they paid no attention (to the servants’ invitation) and went away, one to his field, another to his business. The rest seized his servants, mistreated them, and killed them.

The king was enraged, and he sent his troops to destroy those murderers and burn their city. Then he said to his servants, ‘The wedding banquet is ready, but those I invited were not worthy. Go therefore to the crossroads and invite to the banquet as many as you can find.’

So the servants went out into the streets and gathered everyone they could find, both evil and good, and the wedding hall was filled with guests.

But when the king came in to see the guests, he spotted a man who was not dressed in wedding clothes. ‘Friend,’ he asked, ‘how did you get in here without wedding clothes?’

But the man was speechless.

Then the king told the servants, ‘Tie him hand and foot, and throw him into the outer darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’

For many are called, but few are chosen.”

Another stern warning from the Messiah:
(Matthew 7:21-23)

Not everyone who says to Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only he who does the will of My Father in heaven. Many will say to Me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in Your name, and in Your name drive out demons and perform many miracles?’

Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you; depart from Me, you workers of lawlessness!’

These warnings tell us that even some people who KNOW Who Jesus is, and who expect to be welcomed at the wedding feast, will instead be ejected from The Lord’s presence and cast into hell. What a sobering reality for all of us.

But why are believers surprised by this? If we’re reading His Word, throughout scripture we see that even satan and his demons know Who Jesus is and shudder in His presence. They have to flee at His command. But this obedience is forced; they are not willingly following Yahweh’s commands out of love.

Friends, for the majority of my life, I thought I was one of the 99 sheep that was safely grazing on the hill. But I was the one Yahweh had to come after. I was lost. And I only discovered this by reading His Word for myself, rather than relying on others to read it for me and then relay the meaning (which is pretty dangerous, especially considering the number of false prophets running rampant in these last days).

If you don’t currently have a Bible study plan, I highly recommend seekingscripture.com. Christy Jordan does a beautiful job of leading this study on the whole Word of God in such a loving way. Yahweh is calling His Remnant to come home to Him in these last days. Seek Him through His Word, and enter into His everlasting and perfect Peace. Fall at His feet and be FREE!

Matthew 18:12-14

Blessings!
Emily

windex

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The other day, I saw a post on social media with a classic throwback reference that gave me a solid belly laugh. In one of the organic-remedies-type groups I’ve joined, another mom posted about an all-natural salve that she had found numerous uses for. When the salve came up in conversation with her children, one child told the other that this salve was mom’s new “Windex”.

Now if you haven’t seen the movie My Big Fat Greek Wedding, I realize that reference will be completely lost on you. But if you have seen it, then you probably chuckled out loud just now.

My Big Fat Greek Wedding is a rom-com done right. If you haven’t seen it, go right now and find a way to watch it. Everyone needs a good laugh nowadays.

The head of the Greek family in this movie is proud Papa Gus, and he is adamant that Windex (in addition to being a great cleaner) is a cure-all for anything that ails you. Got a sore elbow? Windex. Wake up with a zit? Windex. Poison ivy? Windex. Burn your hand? “Put some Windex on it!”

This hysterical Windex reference is a running joke throughout the movie. Just when you think something is beyond the power of Windex, this strange phenomenon strikes again. Ignoring the reality that Windex is not meant to treat odd skin conditions or injuries, this ruse gives us a great talking point for today.

I started thinking about how Windex is first and foremost used to clean glass (usually windows and mirrors), to help us see more clearly. Our once-cloudy perspectives become crystal clear when we use Windex appropriately. Just like the Holy Spirit. He is my Windex.

Not only does the Holy Spirit help me to see everything more clearly, but he can also do many other things that Windex cannot do. Windex’s power stops at the glass. It cleans the glass for you, but then it’s up to you to discern what you’re actually seeing.

Without the blessing of the Holy Spirit, I would be at the mercy of my own thoughts and limited human understanding about what I see happening in the world today. I can sit and take in all the information that the media wants to pour into me, but without a truthful guide and accurate compass, I’m going to be tossed around in the wind, not knowing where I will end up.

It is crystal clear to me that the much-needed remedy – for all of us – is the Holy Spirit.

Anyone can receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. There are just 3 main steps involved in receiving and keeping this blessing:

  • Step 1. PRAY: Repent and ask the Holy Spirit to come live inside of you, and guide you each day.
  • Step 2. READ: Open your Bible every day and devote time to learning God’s Will for your life.
  • Step 3. OBEY: When you feel the Holy Spirit nudging you, don’t ignore him. Follow God’s Word, and don’t reject the Holy Spirit by continued disobedience.

Step 1 and 2 are pretty obvious, but I’d like to dive a little deeper into step 3 for a minute.

It is undeniably true that without our belief in Jesus as the Son of God, we cannot be saved. Jesus died on a cross to save us. Without his sacrifice, we would be condemned to an eternity apart from God. Therefore, acknowledging this sacrifice made on our behalf, earnestly praying for forgiveness for our sins, and accepting God’s grace (to cover accidental sin we might fall into) is absolutely imperative to our salvation.

“I do not nullify the grace of God, for if righteousness were through the law, then Christ died for no purpose.”
-Galatians 2: 21 (ESV)

However, we are not called to abuse God’s grace by repeatedly choosing our own fleshly desires (sin) over his good and perfect Will for our lives. There are many who live under the assumption that one prayer is all it takes to be saved forever, no matter how you choose to live. Friends, please do not be deceived by a false comfort whispered to you from the enemy.

If, after your repentant prayer, you choose to live a life walking with God each day, earnestly implementing steps 1-3 above, then YES, the Holy Spirit will live inside you and serve as the MARK and SEAL of your salvation.

However, if you repent but then choose to return to unchecked habitual sin patterns (usually an indication that steps 2 and 3 are not being implemented), then you will be rejecting the gift and SEAL of the the Holy Spirit on your life and salvation. If you repeatedly ignore the Holy Spirit, eventually your view of the world will be so clouded by your own sin that you will no longer be able to see and discern the Truth, and you’ll be willfully living in rebellion against God. Anyone who lives in the flesh has not truly been BORN AGAIN.

1 Peter 1: 13-25 says:

Therefore, preparing your minds for action, and being sober-minded, set your hope fully on the grace that will be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ. As obedient children, do not be conformed to the passions of your former ignorance, but as he who called you is holy, you also be holy in all your conduct, since it is written, “You shall be holy, for I am holy.” And if you call on him as Father who judges impartially according to each one's deeds, conduct yourselves with fear throughout the time of your exile, knowing that you were ransomed from the futile ways inherited from your forefathers, not with perishable things such as silver or gold, but with the precious blood of Christ, like that of a lamb without blemish or spot. He was foreknown before the foundation of the world but was made manifest in the last times for the sake of you who through him are believers in God, who raised him from the dead and gave him glory, so that your faith and hope are in God. Having purified your souls by your obedience to the truth for a sincere brotherly love, love one another earnestly from a pure heart, since you have been born again, not of perishable seed but of imperishable, through the living and abiding word of God; for: 

“All flesh is like grass
and all its glory like the flower of grass.
The grass withers,
and the flower falls,
but the word of the Lord remains forever.”

And this word is the good news that was preached to you.

But no matter how far you may have strayed away from Him, if you truly and earnestly repent and turn your life back to God (steps 1, 2 and 3!) — He is MIGHTY to SAVE!

Church, the spiritual warfare happening in these last days is heavy and relentless. Without our Windex, we will not be able to see things for what they truly are. We will be blinded to the Truth, and miss the warning signs that are all around us.

Jesus is coming soon. As His Church, we have work to do. Don’t delay. He desires that not a single one be left behind.

Blessings,
Emily

fear not

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My dear friends,

In a world full of fear and fear-mongering, many believers are searching for answers, guidance, and comfort. The Lord has spoken to me and told me to address this issue on social media as well as in my blog. So here we go.

We are in the midst of great spiritual warfare; the times are very heavy and many believers are feeling alone and sometimes defeated in this battle. I struggled with these feelings myself, until the Lord spoke words of Life into me and reminded me who I am and WHOSE I am. So I am here to tell you that YOU ARE NOT ALONE. God has heard your prayers, and He is still fighting for us. He is tarrying before Returning to give US more time to be saved by His grace and our true repentance.

Church, there are two things we need to stop and do right now.

Step 1: Pray for God to tell us what He wants us to know.

“Father God, I pray that you would open the eyes and ears of all your true believers today, that we would understand Your Words, and receive them as You intended. Please strengthen us and give us wisdom by increasing the presence of the Holy Spirit in us today. Give us discernment and a thirst for Your Will to be done, in Jesus’ name. AMEN!”

Step 2: Choose to be His faithful servants by digging into the absolute Truth of His Word.

The Lord says: “Call to me and I will answer you, and will tell you great and hidden things that you have not known.” -Jeremiah 33:3

JEREMIAH 33:3

If we earnestly seek His Truth, we will find Him. Every word of the Bible is God-breathed, and designed to help us understand how to live our lives in order to be pleasing to God, and to be blessed by Him. In my quiet time, I recently discovered the power of Psalm 91, and its perfect relevance to the tribulations we are facing today.

PSALM 91:1
Psalm 91 (NIV):

Whoever dwells in the shelter of the Most High
will rest in the shadow of the Almighty.
I will say of the Lord, “He is my refuge and my fortress,
my God, in whom I trust.”

Surely he will save you
from the fowler’s snare
and from the deadly pestilence.
He will cover you with his feathers,
and under his wings you will find refuge;
his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart.
You will not fear the terror of night,
nor the arrow that flies by day,
nor the pestilence that stalks in the darkness,
nor the plague that destroys at midday.
A thousand may fall at your side,
ten thousand at your right hand,
but it will not come near you.
You will only observe with your eyes
and see the punishment of the wicked.

If you say, “The Lord is my refuge,”
and you make the Most High your dwelling,
no harm will overtake you,
no disaster will come near your tent.
For he will command his angels concerning you
to guard you in all your ways;
they will lift you up in their hands,
so that you will not strike your foot against a stone.
You will tread on the lion and the cobra;
you will trample the great lion and the serpent.

“Because he loves me,” says the Lord, “I will rescue him;
I will protect him, for he acknowledges my name.
He will call on me, and I will answer him;
I will be with him in trouble,
I will deliver him and honor him.
With long life I will satisfy him
and show him my salvation.”

Friends, if this passage does not speak volumes to you in these trying times, then your ears have been shut by the enemy, and you are in danger of being held captive by the great delusion.

Did you know the “fear not” message is found in 365 verses of the Bible? Why would God put the same message in the Bible on so many different occasions unless He was absolutely serious about it? Living in a spirit of fear can affect our faith. Fear is not a fruit of the Holy Spirit, and therefore can only have one other origin. Do not be deceived!

95% of what the media is telling you is simply propaganda to spread fear. TURN IT OFF. Turn on the Word of God in your homes and in your heart! Let it be a Lamp to light your path. Carry it with you each day. Let it live on your lips and on the lips of your spouse, your children, your grandchildren, etc. until the Lord calls us all home at the end of time.

Absolutely nothing in this world nullifies the rich and living Word of God. Nothing can touch us without God’s permission. Not one single thing! In chapter 1 of the book of Job, we see that the enemy himself had to ask God’s permission to touch Job: 

Now there was a day when the sons of God came to present themselves before the Lord, and Satan also came among them. 
The Lord said to Satan, “From where have you come?” Satan answered the Lord and said, “From going to and fro on the earth, and from walking up and down on it.” 
And the Lord said to Satan, “Have you considered my servant Job, that there is none like him on the earth, a blameless and upright man, who fears God and turns away from evil?” 
Then Satan answered the Lord and said, “Does Job fear God for no reason? 
Have you not put a hedge around him and his house and all that he has, on every side? You have blessed the work of his hands, and his possessions have increased in the land. 
But stretch out your hand and touch all that he has, and he will curse you to your face.” 
And the Lord said to Satan, “Behold, all that he has is in your hand. Only against him do not stretch out your hand.” So Satan went out from the presence of the Lord.

The enemy took Job’s family, his servants, his house, his livestock, his fields… and what did Job do? He WORSHIPPED and PRAISED God.

JOB 1:20-22
Then Job arose and tore his robe and shaved his head and fell on the ground and worshiped. 
And he said, “Naked I came from my mother's womb, and naked shall I return. The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.”
In all this Job did not sin or charge God with wrong.

Job understood that everything he had been given belonged to God. He recognized that God had blessed him with many things, and that God could also take away those things because He IS GOD, and does not need to explain Himself to us. Job was indeed a faithful servant of God.

Brothers and sisters, each of us has a number of days set aside by God, and not one thing can take away a single second of that time. NOT.ONE.THING.

In Job 14:5, we read: “…his days are determined, and the number of his months is with you, and you have appointed his limits that he cannot pass…”

Knowing that God has numbered our days and that He is forever faithful to His Word, we can walk securely in the knowledge that He truly is our shield and refuge. Nothing can touch us without His permission. If He does allow something to cross our path, we must trust that He has a great purpose for it! He will either get us through it and use it to correct us or grow our faith and bring us closer to Him, or He will bring us home to glory because we have fulfilled our purpose and it is our time to rest. We can believe and trust in this good word from Him today!

No matter what you are facing today, PRAISE God. TRUST in Him. Walk by FAITH, and do not fear!

Be awakened to His Truth and stand firm in His Word! AMEN and AMEN!

Blessings,
Emily

suffering and trusting Him to make it right

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A recent devotion in my “Bible In One Year” plan (by the YouVersion Bible app) broached the very hard subject of “suffering”.. and our lack of understanding surrounding it.

When we are in the middle of suffering, it is often tremendously hard to trust God. We forget that He suffers alongside us. We forget that He uses trials and difficulties to test and strengthen our faith, and develop our character. We forget that He intends it ALL for good. For example, in Genesis, God used Joseph’s suffering to save an entire nation. And in the New Testament, God used Jesus’s suffering to save US ALL.

Yeshua (Jesus) told us Himself that the fruitful branches would be pruned in order to bear even more fruit. Our pruning is often painful but necessary in order for us to grow even stronger in Him.

“I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener. He cuts off every branch in me that bears no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit he prunes so that it will be even more fruitful.” -John 15:1-2

This devotion about suffering made me think of my mother, and how she suffered so much for 3 years with her terrible cancer. I know she struggled at times to understand why God allowed her to suffer so much, and perhaps she even questioned what she had done to deserve such suffering. But God doesn’t allow us to suffer because He has a score to settle. In the book of Job, we see that Job is a righteous man who God allowed to suffer immense turmoil in many different forms, before making everything right for Job. In fact, God restored to him even more than he had before his suffering began! We can look at Job’s response to his suffering as a model for our own behaviors when we’re facing trials; Job never once lost his faith. Job never cursed God or turned his back on God. He remained faithful (albeit lamenting) even in his suffering, and God made everything right for him.

But what about those who suffer and don’t get restored in this life? What about my mother? After a miserable 3 years, my sister and I spent an agonizing final week with Mama in hospice, before she passed into eternity. The healing we had prayed for her never came–well, at least not in this life. I have often struggled with God’s decision to not heal her cancer, after the multitude of prayers that she and so many of her loved ones sent up in good faith for that outcome. For a year and a half, I have asked the question, “WHY?”

And then, a story in my daily devotional completely changed my perspective.

A one-year-old boy shattered his back falling down a flight of stairs. He spent his childhood and youth in and out of the hospital — 13 long years of surgeries and treatments. At age 17, he was interviewed by a bishop in his church, and the boy remarked, “God is fair.” The bishop asked him if he thought what had happened to him was fair, and the boy’s response was astounding: “God has got all of eternity to make it up to me.”

We live in a world of instant gratification that has almost entirely lost its eternal perspective. But this boy had amazing insight into eternity with his enlightened response. Even if we never see our prayers for healing or relief come to fruition in this life, God is not done. He is not limited to the boundaries of this earth or our temporary lives here. He has ALL of eternity to fulfill His promises to us, and answer our prayers.

There are some things that we will never understand this side of Heaven, but we can rest assured that God is GOOD. His goodness and mercy can be seen throughout the whole Bible! He uses everything for His good purposes. We are simply asked to have faith and trust in Him above all else.

I keep this verse in mind whenever I don’t understand the things that happen in this world, and somehow, it always provides comfort:

The secret things belong to the Lord our God, but the things revealed belong to us and to our children forever, that we may follow all the words of this law. -Deuteronomy 29:29

I hope this message blesses you today, and that you might recall it when you’re in the midst of suffering.

Love in Christ,
Emily